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From: Grezkull
Date: 5/4/2001
Hello, I to suffer from an addiction to computer games, namly EVERQUEST. To tell u the truth, i just deleted the game now(03/05/01 11:20 est). I feel this sence of empty ness, this feeling is just tearing me up inside and i know that it is my withdrawl pains.
But enough about me, about your son. Chances are, he too is suffering as i am when he finishes playing for the night. I believe that my addiction was caused by greed; the WANT for amazing Items and knowing that the only way to get them is to pour immence amounts of time into the game no matter what the cost is. My addiction has caused me my 2nd semester in Gr. 12. I have to go back to school next year to repeat the same 3 courses i botched up because of EQ and my addiction in genetal. I skpiied over 40 classes just to play games and i am now feeling the pain of my accadamic loss. Not even my parents know about it, so i know that they are going to totally lose it come report handouts( UGH! DAMN COMPUTER GAMES TO HELL!!).
*I have alot to say and i dont think i am making much sence, so bear with me and try to get the jist of what i am trying to say.*
Computer games are runing my life, and i relize this, but i just can't stop thinking about playing them. Even now i am guilty of thinking about playing Mechwarrior4 and Starcraft. Whenever i stop playing, that time is basically spent thinking about computer games and not my studying, therefore, i suffer. I take LONG *breaks* from my studies just to play computer games, so i suffer. I have spent the last 7 years of my life playing games and therefore, i havent developed into a socialy-interactive person, so i suffer. Because of computer games, i have like no REAL friends, I WILL NOT DENY THIS!, so i suffer. BEcause of compter games, my family life suffers because i force everyone off the computer so that i may play, now my entire family is apathetic towards me, so i suffer. I am currently facing suicide because of games.... so my family might suffer.
The playing of all games should be regulated at all times. If you give a playstation 2 and a favourate game to a child, that child will not stop playing until the playstation 2 is turned off(or the computer, N64, etc). If the use of video games remains un regulated, then the habbit of playing games for 8hours +/day will continue into adulthood, thus, ending thier chances at having a successful life, both financially and socially. They may say they are social, but talking to people over chat is not being social, its just typing suff into a computer and waiting for the reply then to react to the reply(rinse and repeat). They may say that they are too smart to need to study, chances are, that is not the case, wisdom and intelligence are 2 completely different traits. Intelligence allows the assimilation of data into the brain and easy manipulation of it, while wisdom allows the brain to use it in the right situations(Ie. Learning from ones mistakes, then using that knowledge in the future). (ugh, i know i am blabing on, but i am almost done).
ANGER ASSOCIATED WITH VIDEO GAMES
Starcraft, Warcraft, Age of Empires, Age of Kings, TA, Ect. If i lose a game in one of these games, i wil totally flipp out. I will cuss then shut off my computer. I believe that the true reason i do this is because i know that playing games for the last 7 years has basically handicapped me mentally and and given me a uperriority complex, but at the same time, understanding that i havem infact, below average human mental capabilities. Thus, losing would set me off because it would be like the person that defeated me was rubbing my face with it AND showing to me that i am INFACT inferrior. God, this must sound totally f***ed up, but its the truth.
Please watch your son closly. And if you really want to do him a favour, take the computer away, or delete his characters, delete the game, and take his EQ disc and break it. He WILL BE PISSED at you for liek a month, but eventually, he will become a *normal* person. Its harsh, its cruel, but i tell u what: when he looks back upon his life, he will thank you for doing so, as would i if my parents did this along time ago for me.
Now comes the hard phase of recovery. I have 4 months off to consider what to do with my life since this *current* semester of mine was completely destroyed by an INSANE use of video games. It shall be a long and hard road to recovery, but it must be done.
I hope this touched and helped everone who has read it, i know that it has made me reflect even further into my situation, even brought a few tears to my eye.
I urge all of you everquest players to consider this:
Why do we play EverQuest? Is it for the people that we play along side with? ->why not spend time with REAL friends in REAL life?
Is it for the items? -> Eq will constantly release new items, more and more and more. When will it end? Its all the same useless junk. like sure, Warrior epics are nice or rogue epics, but what after that? Endless hours of camping the planes with ur guilds? for more useless junk etc. Its an Insedious cycle that wil never stop.
To make Money on Ebay? DAmn, your INSANE!! it takes hours upon hours to get good sellable stuff. even then, the money made from a minimum wage job would make more and the process can be fun too.
FOr FUN??? Tell me, is camping a mob for 10 hours straight fun??????? wouldent you rather blow stuff up or somthing in a different game? if so, then mabye everquest is an addiction and not fun.. think about it: WHY do we play games? for fun right? so, if a game is not fun, then why should we play it?
So why not play everquest? think about it this way: If you could summon all thoes hours you have played on everquest so that they could be relived, what would you do? Get a girlfriend, make money, get laid, make friends, study, get laid, work out, play sports, did i mention get laid???
Geez people, get a clue here, GAMES IN GENERAL CAN BE FUN! but if useage is not limited, then they can be worse than the most potent narcotic.
JUST TAKE MY WORD FOR IT! MY LIFE IS RUINED, ITS NOW LIKE A FRIGGING NUCLEAR WASTE LAND WHICH I HAVE TO REBUILD TO ITS ORIGINAL GARDIN OF EDIN BEAUTY! THIS WILL TAKE A LONGGGGG TIME AND THE PROCESS WILL BE HELL ON EARTH!
-JEFFREY RUSSEL STARK
My email: kowonkrak@hotmail.com
Please email me, i will try to help you as much as i can, i have had like 7 years of hardcore gaming addictions. Btw i am only 17 years of age, however, my life is still ruined. Please dont ruin yours!
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